Posts Tagged ‘energy’

the fear of falling.

Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

 

Celebrating the rise and "fall" of creative growth

 

 

 

 

“If we’re growing, we’re always going to be out of our comfort zone.”

John Maxwell

 

I am in the middle of launching two of the most revolutionary programs of my career for 2012–The Fire Tree Method’s ® Creative Catalyst & Creative Catalyst MBA Programs and The Art of Entrepreneurship™ Creative Mastermind. I am taking a radical approach in birthing something bold and new, something that is desperately needed on a global scale. And my own fears are creeping in. The voice of the inner-critic lizard-brain taunts me asking…‘Can you pull this off?’ It brings me to my own edges of what I believed was possible for me, for others and for …YOU!

 

 

There is nothing like either program out there. They are both wonderfully unique and unbelievably life-altering. It is requiring every bit of bravery and courage that I can muster to create such an experience for people….for the world…for myself. To do it differently, to listen and act on my intuition, go out into the unknown and embrace the mystery of the unknown. Embrace the void.

 

 

The details, dates and applicants are all coming together and I am meeting my fears of success, commitment and of stepping into my highest potential as a visionary and trail blazer. The intensity of it all just about knocked the wind out of me.

 

 

Last week, while letting my dog out in the rain, I had a big fall on the wet limestone back patio (I’m OK). It scared the hell out of me and shook me to my core. All my life flashed before me. Inviting me to slow down. Breathe and remember the preciousness of life.

 

 

Even with such a distraction as a big fall, I was reminded that it is wired in every cell of my body to birth these programs. It has been years of visioning, training, experiences, knowingness and passion that has prepared me for this coming year of my highest contribution yet. And even though the fears and distractions come to jolt us from our center, it is the ability to stay focused and trust in the creative Source that leads us through the tunnel of the unknown and into manifesting our dreams. We must learn to let go and allow ourselves to fall.

 

 

So yes, I fell. And I fell hard. I was alone, scared, sad and vulnerable. What I did differently than in the past was that I felt my humanity entirely and embraced every second of my vulnerability, surrendering to it without letting it keep me down on the ground.

 

 

I am reminded that fear is actually a powerful catalyst on the creative journey. It invites us to to step into our next level of growth. So if you aren’t dancing with your own fears then you aren’t living. Fear is what calls us to our next best self. Even if you fall you will realize that you can get back up. That you are invincible AND human. That people who love you will support you and care for you when you reach out for it…and sometimes even when you don’t.

 

 

So celebrate your fears! They are whispering you forward, teasing you tirelessly to step up, step out and fall into the unknown of your next best self and grow through it.  If you fall you might just realize how strong your really are and how much support your really have.

 

 

What fears are you currently wrestling with enticing you toward your next level of growth? Post your comments or email me directly I would love to hear from you.

 

with love & celebration,

Melissa

 

step into your next level of growth at the LAST Saturday intro to intuitive painting session of 2011!


& View a sneak preview of our NEW 2012 programs!

 

the art of creation:  intuitive painting saturday session

december 10, 2011

12pm – 4pm

guided by melissa d’antoni

 

 

 

 

Spend an afternoon awakening and nourishing your creative spirit by immersing yourself in over three hours of exploration, expression, play and deep surrender.

 

The Saturday Art of Creation Intuitive Painting class welcomes continuing students and first time painters, providing a space to journey through barriers of old patterns and stagnant, less-than-serving beliefs that keep you from tapping into the internal well of creativity, power and life force energy that is within you.

 

 

 

  • investment:  $75 (inludes all materials and Hill Country spring water)
  • beginners welcome!
  • guided by melissa d’antoni

 

 

 

How to register?  Need more information?

 

 

  • Visit our website www.firetreestudios.com and sign up on our Schedule page via pay pal.
  • Call 512 524 0687 to use a credit card or pay by check or cash.
  • Email melissa@firetreestudios.com.
  • Click the register button below.

 

 

 

 

2012 creative catalyst mastery & mba training programs

now accepting applications

 

 

 

Join Melissa D’Antoni and an extraordinary group of creative change agents, who are committed to catalyzing massive transformation in the world.

 

This revolutionary 1-2 year program will provide you with the framework, inspiration, guidance, tools, community, experience and expertise to become a facilitator and coach in The Fire Tree Method®

 

The time is now for you to step in to your power, passion and purpose and start living boldly in the world.  The world needs you now! It is time to start living your truth with commitment and vitality.

 

 

 

Are you ready to become a creative change agent as a facilitator or coach?

 



  • Are you looking to catalyze others toward their own self-empowerment using the creative process?  Hint: You must start with your Self first.

 

  • Are you willing to be a guide for others by leveraging the power of the expressive/transformative/intuitive arts to inspire wholeness and well-being?

 

  • Are you thinking about leaving the safety of a well-paying but unsatisfying corporate job to start living with purpose and meaning while making an impact on the world around you?

 

  • Are you ready to let go of the ‘starving artist myth’, ‘healer’ or ‘martyr myth’ to thrive prosperously living what you love AND making an impact on the world around you?

 

 

 

If you are really clear that you are ready to take BOLD action into your own transformation, living life from a place of passion vs. fear, then The Fire Tree Method® Creative Catalyst Mastery Program & Creative Catalyst MBA Program is the cutting edge experiential and highly transformative training experience that will prepare those that are called to serve and are committed to ‘walking their talk’ by taking the journey to their own Self empowerment through the creative process.

 

 

Call 512 524 0687 to learn more about the 2012 Creative Catalyst Mastery Program and the Creative Catalyst MBA Program and to request an application.  We look forward to hearing from you!

getting to I do.

Wednesday, November 16th, 2011

 

A "Wild Woman" celebrating commitment to Self

 

 

 

 

 

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserves your love and affection.”

Buddha

 

 

 

 

What is it going to take for you to fully commit and take action?

 

 

A client of mine at this past weekend’s Wild Women’s Intuitive Painting Retreat shared a book with me that she wanted to burn in our campfire. She said, “I am done with this book,  ‘Getting to I Do.’  I am going to focus on loving myself first–I am my happy ending!”

 

I felt this was profound.  Not just her proclamation of self-love and reverence but also of holding herself fully responsible for her own happiness. In that sense I found the book had made its impact. It might not have been the immediate result that she was ultimately seeking when she picked up the book – which was to get married – yet the result was one far greater than she could have realized at that point.  The result was fully committing to herself.

 

Inside the art barn of creativity at the Wild Women's Retreat

 

So then ‘Getting to I Do’, takes on a whole other meaning.  It spoke to me and I see it in my own journey and in those of my clients…what does it take to get to I do? To marry yourSelf? What does it take for you to commit to yourself? Your dream? Vision? Creativity? Partnership? …Your Passion?

 

Dreams, visions and desires are all nice. I will be the first to claim myself as a dreamer with a vivid imagination.  However, Champagne dreams are just clouds in the ether unless you fully commit to manifest them thoroughly.

 

Are you willing to get to I do, by taking the journey to what you want?

 

 

 

with love, creativity & commitment,
Melissa

 

 

 

get down to IT and DO IT!  Join us in the studio

 

 

 

saturdays in the studio

december 10, 2011

12pm – 4pm

(last saturday session of 2011)

 

 

Phyllis expresses her feelings through paint

 

Spend an afternoon awakening and nourishing your creative spirit by immersing yourself in over three hours of exploration, expression, play and deep surrender.

 

The Saturday Visionary Painting class welcomes continuing students and first time painters, providing a space to journey through barriers of old patterns and stagnant, less-than-serving beliefs that keep you from tapping into the internal well of creativity, power and life force energy that is within you.

 

 

 

  • investment:  $75 (inludes all materials and Hill Country spring water)
  • beginners welcome!
  • guided by melissa d’antoni

 

 

 

 

How to register?  Need more information?

 

 

  • Visit our website www.firetreestudios.com and sign up on our Schedule page via pay pal.
  • Call 512 524 0687 to use a credit card or pay by check or cash.
  • Email melissa@firetreestudios.com.
  • Click the register button below.

 

 

 

 

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want what you need.

Friday, November 4th, 2011

 

Me and my son, Rylo

 

 

 

Greetings everyone!  For those that I have not had the opportunity to meet…my name is Courtney and I am Melissa’s Program Coordinator at Fire Tree Studios.  Today I am stepping in as a ‘guest blogger’ so you may get to know a little about me as I get acquainted with all of you.  For the past several months I have had the gift of supporting Melissa and her vision while furthering my path of creative purpose.  I look forward to meeting you along your own journey. 

 

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How would your choices change if you were completely free to make the choices that you desire at the time of that most passionate state of want?  If nothing could hold you back from going after your true, raw vision…would you?  And would you right now?

 

While sitting in a powerful discussion on ways of advancing Fire Tree Studios into 2012, I was invited to offer my opinion about what I would WANT and NEED in a coach and program if I were seeking out a creative transformational program for myself.  Many “wants” jumped out at me, but my wants often change as different situations in my life change.  Wants are constantly being sought…when you get what you want, that want is only replaced by another want…a cycle of attachment to “having it all.” Yet my needs are far more concrete.  My needs can affect my soul, my purpose…my wants can be satisfied on a less organic scale.

 

This got me to thinking…why is it that with relationships, work, homes and hobbies we can settle for just getting what we want…but yet often do not reach a little further and take what we need to be truly happy, truly fulfilled.?…I think that is the difference between thinking about a program at Fire Tree Studios and taking the next step to becoming active in its community.

 

From my previous experiences working in a professional matchmaking environment through stints in selling real estate I always heard the same types of responses to some very big choices in people’s lives…

 

“What are you looking for in a partner?”

 

“I WANT him/her to be successful”.  “I WANT him to be attractive”.  “I WANT him to like music, sports, etc.”  But never once did I ever hear anyone say, “I NEED him/her to be compassionate”.  “I NEED her to be supportive”.  “I NEED him to have the same values”.   So time and time again these clients would come back disappointed because what they wanted continued to change as they changed.  They allowed their wants to outweigh their needs.

 

In real estate I often heard “I WANT a downtown location. ”I WANT 4 bedrooms instead of 3.”  “ I WANT wood floors and not carpeting.”  And their focus became these easy things that they could actually change themselves for little time, energy and budget.  WANTS were often trends.  WANTS were often temporary and the WANT would often change several times throughout their buying process.  The happiest of clients were the ones that knew what they NEEDED in a home and so I was very successful in helping them find that.  The NEEDS they could not live without.  The WANTS they could always add later.

 

It is through evaluation of my own personal wants and needs that led me to my path of finding Fire Tree Studios.  My old habits of want out of my occupation actually made me miserable.  What I thought that I wanted…money, travel, status, prestige…was actually what pulled the joy from my own heart.  What I needed was to make my passion my profession which was the art of creation…creating articles, creating music, creating photos, creating fashion, singing, being surrounded by people living their life’s purpose…working with people of integrity, authentic beings.

 

When I made the decision to leave my state of miserable comfort and stability and challenged myself to love me enough to gift myself with creative opportunities…the world opened up to me and I was flooded with the RIGHT opportunities.  The realization was that I had not acknowledged my needs…I had placed them out of reach and let them gather dust while I polished all of the wants that I thought would make my life better.  To wake up each morning and live a life with purpose…a life that is ever evolving…a life that I love…that I need…is a blessing that I wish for everyone.

 

So I cannot speak for anyone other than myself when I think about what I would need in a program and coach of my own.  I can only advise that if you come to terms with what you need…then you are already taking the first step in your process to living your vision.  There is no better time than now.  What you want today will likely not be what you want a few years from now.  What you need in your heart, your soul, and your vision…will always be there…it always has.  Dust it off, wake it up…live it.  Then everything that you want will be clear.

 

 

 

may you all find what you already have,

Courtney

 

 

 

 

 

 

harvest your creativity with our fall offerings…

 

 

wild women’s weekend painting retreat in pontotoc, texas

walk on the wild side november 11-13, 2011

friday 6pm – sunday 5pm

 

“We are all filled with a longing for the wild. There are few culturally sanctioned antidotes for this yearning. We were taught to feel shame for such a desire. We grew our hair long and used it to hide our feelings. But the shadow of Wild Woman still lurks behind us during our days and in our nights. No matter where we are, the shadow that trots behind us is definitely four-footed.”

– Clarissa Pinkola Estes, PH.D.

Women Who Run with the Wolves:  Stories and Myths of the Wild Woman Archetype

 

 

 

Val is the queen of the art barn

 

  • Are You Ready to awaken, express and reclaim……your organic wildness?!
  • Do you seek that raw creative life-force essence that lives and breathes deep within in you?
  • Do you desire to discover your authentic voice?
  • Do you crave a space where you can join together in community with like-minded sisters that crave to explore this lost aspect of ourselves…to give yourself permission to display the often-hidden wildness from within?

 

Then this, my SISTERS….is for YOU!

 

Fire Tree Studios is taking a road trip to a private vineyard in the Texas Hill Country for a painting retreat dedicated to deepening your intuition and Wild sense of knowing! Through creating a safe and sacred container, this highly meditative retreat will take you deep into your flow, opening the door to awakening and transformation from within.

 

 

Farmhouse on the vineyard

 

 

Come spend a weekend immersed in your painting process at a lovely private vineyard set on a old farm in the Texas Hill Country.  Paint outside in a open-air milk-barn that is transformed into a painting studio…get inspired with your view of the plentiful vineyard!

 

 

 

Vineyard dinners

 

 

 

 

 

 

  • Begin each morning with authentic movement to awaken the creative juices
  • Get into your flow with over 20 hours of painting process, guidance and creative teachings!
  • Enjoying country cooking provided by Brandy Gibbs of Fine Home Dining…and a BBQ welcome dinner!
  • Let your hair down!  Wind down each evening with wild stories around the campfire.
  • Reflect on your process and your day by taking in the majestic sun setting over the vineyard.

 

 

 

 

 

Investment:

 

Investment depends on level of accommodations in the farmhouse.

  • Bunk beds ($600) or doubles in a shared room ($700).
  • Camping on the property is also available for $550.
  • Hook-ups are available for trailers ($575).
  • Full payment is required to secure your space.
  • All materials included.
  • 5 delicious, organic meals included to nourish the mind & spirit!
  • Massage therapy available for an additional investment.

 

Painting barn!

 

 

How to Register?

 

  • Call the studio at 512 524 0687
  • Email melissa@firetreestudios.com
  • Visit our website www.firetreestudios.com to sign up on our Schedule page
  • Click the Register button below

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

saturdays in the studio

december 10, 2011

12pm – 4pm

(last saturday session of 2011)

 

 

Jennifer explores her creativity with paint

 

Spend an afternoon awakening and nourishing your creative spirit by immersing yourself in over three hours of exploration, expression, play and deep surrender.

 

The Saturday Visionary Painting class welcomes continuing students and first time painters, providing a space to journey through barriers of old patterns and stagnant, less-than-serving beliefs that keep you from tapping into the internal well of creativity, power and life force energy that is within you.

 

 

 

  • investment:  $75 (inludes all materials and Hill Country spring water)
  • beginners welcome!
  • guided by melissa d’antoni

 

Claire cleaning her brushes after an afternoon in the studio

 

 

 

How to register?  Need more information?

 

 

  • Visit our website www.firetreestudios.com and sign up on our Schedule page via pay pal.
  • Call 512 524 0687 to use a credit card.
  • Email melissa@firetreestudios.com.
  • Click the register button below.

 

 

 

 

Don’t forget to ‘like’ us on Facebook!  Be the first to hear about all of our new offerings for 2012!